Hey, let’s talk about Sex Drives and Libidos! Being a person is tough and sometimes it can feel like my sex drive is just all over the place. So I wanted to tell the story of my libido for those who may relate to those fluctuating temperatures. You’re not alone!

Matthew Notes
A big thank you, as ever, to Jey for sharing such a lovely snippet of relatable autobio. I think there’s something deeply important to be reminded that, as much as our media and culture seems to portray otherwise, our sex drives aren’t meant to be going at 100% all the time. It’s a wave that’s always in flux and there’s no ‘wrong’ or ‘right’ amount. If you want to learn more I’d recommend reading an older Erika comic about a book we absolutely adore: Come As You Are.

Today is our first update after the Pledge Drive Month! We wanted to say a huge thank you to the hundreds of you who signed up and took part. It was such a boon to the team and me to see so many of you join up with a fresh donation and commitment. Heck even just the tweets of support and kindness were amazing to see. Thank you.

We’re planning on making a post all about how it went when we actually get real numbers- Patreon is crazily complicated when you’re a per-post-account, it’s almost impossible to tell how the fundraising affected our income until a month or two after! Wild right? Regardless, the sign-ups we saw were so deeply encouraging – truly thank you all.

If you are new here or are only JUST hearing about it; We did a fundraising Pledge Drive last month to help keep this site going! If you want to be a part of that, check these hand links out! The rewards are still there for you!

– The Oh Joy Sex Toy per-comic Patreon to directly support these comics

– The Erika Moen Monthly Patreon with her many art projects