Hey! Guess what, it’s FetLife!
We love this site and are super thankful for the recommendations. You guys did great pointing us at this gem. (If you wanna see our review of AdultFriendFinder, well, here it is!)
I’m not sure if it will be prefect for all of you. Its people-selection is smaller and kinkier than the big companies like AdultFriendFinder or OKCupid. But in Portland, EVERYONE seems to be hooked up and we never felt lacking for people to talk to. We liked the quality of conversation people brought to the site. The majority seemed intelligent and caring, which are attributes normally hard to come by on hook-up websites. Seeing them in abundance on a sexy hook-up site was a real breath of fresh air.
FetLife is worth a try, and has our stamp of approval.