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Why Not Both? by Menthaam

by Matthew Nolan on 03/22/2022 at 12:02 am
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How beautiful is this comic by Menthaam? Every illustration is just so inviting and friendly while covering a subject that can be so fraught and confusing for so many. Menthaam isn’t alone in questioning their sexual orientation and bouncing back and forth between labels. For a good number of folks, their sexual orientation is fixed and consistent, but for the rest of us… well, over the course of your life, you may be surprised to find out who you are attracted to, and that’s ok! Sexuality can be a flexible and surprising thing.

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Added NOTE (3/22/22) Menthaam’s lovely comic today is all about her own personal experiences and definitions of sexuality growing up while living in Russia. We very much want a wide variety of people’s personal stories here on OJST, from different countries and cultures and translated from other languages, like this one.

Bisexuality can be far more than a binary and we strongly encourage you to research and learn more to find what works best for you. Check out some of our comics on sexuality and bisexuality!

└ Tags (chosen by OJST and artist/s): anthro, anthropomorphic, Attraction, autobio, Bisexual, furries, furry, guest, guest comic, lgbt, menthaam, queer, sexuality
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Erika Update!

by Erika Moen on 03/23/2022 at 1:10 am
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Hey! Erika here! You still remember me, right? …I drew all the pink comics on this site for the first, like, 8.5 years of its existence? Yeah, that was me!

Well it’s been a while and I thought it was about time I gave you all an update on where I’ve been and why!

After nearly a decade of working on OJST non-stop, I was feeling preeeeetty burnt out so I’ve been taking the last seven months to switch gears for my creativity and health. What does one do when they take a break from their long-running, deeply personal and frequently autobiographical comic series? One starts a new deeply personal, entirely autobiographical graphic novel, of course!

over on my Patreon. I’m already past 70 rough pages! If you saw some of my earlier OJST comics that mentioned going through IOP and wondered “What the heck even is that?”, then Letters From Space Camp is for you!

Aside from comics, I’ve also been making lots of cool shit too, with the Good Posts about them going up (mostly publicly! For free!) on my Patreon. Oh, and I just made an Instagram account to show off my extremely cool and not at all unnerving Lady Lovely Locks collection, despite intense discouragement from multiple people who love and care about me. Could an unstable person make….THIS?
Photo of Erika looking deranged and happy in front of her Lady Lovely Locks collection

I rest my case.

Anyway, I just wanted to let you guys know I’m still alive and I am just so incredibly grateful for and impressed by all the hard work that Matt and the newly assembled OJST Team have put into keeping this site running without my participation so that I have the time and energy to rest and work on my other projects for a bit. It’s been fascinating and heart-filling to see this place fill up with comics by other creators. Obviously, we’ve always showcased the work of additional cartoonists, but to see this site become more of a community-driven resource that shares an even wider variety of views and experiences, I dunno man, it just feels good. AND it’s making me inspired for my own OJST comics again??? I don’t wanna get anyone’s hopes up or anything, but there may be a comic or two from Matt and me again in the future.

This time away from the regular grind has been good for my brain and heart. It’s helping me see what I loved about this place and career in the first place. I feel so lucky to have produced all the OJST comics that I did and I’m proud of what this site has become and I’m so, so, so grateful I have the support to take some time to myself to recover. Thank you everyone for sticking around and all your support over the years.

└ Tags (chosen by OJST and artist/s): intensive outpatient program, IOP, lady lovely locks, letters from space camp, memoir, mental health, personal

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