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BDSM Safety by Abby Howard

by Matthew Nolan on 02/17/2015 at 12:01 am
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This week we’re following up our 50 Shades of Grey review with a lesson in BSDM safety from expert Abby Howard. She’s fucking hilarious and an incredibly talented cartoonist, we’re incredibly excited to have her on the site!

If you liked her guestcomic as much as we do, go check out her other works:
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There’s only so much us comic artists can get into a page and the world of BDSM is extensive. Matt and I aren’t really experts at it either, so if YOU’RE interested in diving into this exciting world of kink we would absolutely recommend some additional reading material. Below are some links to good book collections, but we also recommend spending some time on Fetlife and getting to know and talk to this community of experts.

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Secretary and 50 Shades of Grey

by Erika Moen on 02/21/2015 at 2:23 pm
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Around the corners of the internet where I hang out, mentioning 50 Shades of Grey can be like standing in a shooting range. It’s difficult to talk about, as anything short of wholesale condemnation brings a barrage of outrage for your assumed avocation of abusive relationships and bad BDSM practices.

“If only these kink-curious newbies could see Secretary instead!” I’ve heard people say many times.

That the abuse and poor BDSM practices of 50 Shades is so reviled but that the same practices in Secretary are adored and embraced is genuinely baffling to me.

So, my Dearest Perverts, today I’m illustrating how Secretary also romanticizes abuse and promotes unsafe BDSM practices equally as badly, if not WORSE, then 50 Shades.

Shocking, I KNOW.
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